casia

sobolewski

pleasure & rematriation

  • "I felt safe from the first moment I entered Casia’s door. I am keen to come back and I am grateful that I learned “taking with limits” which was also super fun to experience. But the most I loved was her PRESENCE. Incredible healing for me! I am feeling so much more alive, centered and empowered."

  • "Casia's openness, perceptiveness and communication skills were very reassuring. It’s the kind of skill that’s difficult to teach. Her comments also helped me clarify what I was really looking for."

  • "Every session was mind blowing. 
I already feel more connected to myself, more trusting in my body and in others, and that the healing process is rolling thanks to you.
 Both my partner and I are really grateful."

  • "I am very grateful for the opportunity you provided for me to safely work through some of my fears, to reprocess sensations, to create newer non-traumatic memories, and to experience that acceptance you showed towards me."

  • "Thank you, truly, for holding space for me, and holding me physically. Thank you for not shaming me or judging me or mommy-ing me. Thank you for the gift you give of your whole self. I don't know if you realize that your mere presence on retreat is like a warm, soft blanket. I feel instantly calmed and safe when you are around. The way that you hold space for others is profound and deeply nourishing. "

  • "Casia’s presence was also an active and attuned guide and guidance— she is someone who names the invisible, invites inquiry curiosity, and brings the sacred into sharp, embodied clarity. There is a premise that “even the profane can be sacred.” Casia seems to know this intuitively. "

  • "Literally the embodiment of eroticism; boundaried, fierce, capable."

  • "I just felt so incredibly safe with her. The invitation into the erotic in a very safe way was and is palpable. She is a sacred gate-keeper, holding the portal open for anyone who is curious."

  • "What she offers is profoundly regulating. Potent in its subtlety. Fierce in its certainly. There’s something about the way she orients that makes my system say yes. Yes to breath, yes to staying, yes to going deeper. Yes to creative expression of it, yes to getting to what might want to be expressed and how. A limbic welcome home."

  • "I trusted her without needing to build a bridge. Anything and everything feels welcomed, embraced, not to be shamed or distorted but to be set free and expressed, so thoroughly not boxed up, not pidgion-holed. Utterly and thoroughly welcoming of diversity and non-binaryness of self expression for all. Her presence in the field of this work was not background — it was essential."

Casia (pr. Casha) is a Mother, partner, sister, auntie, friend, and somatic sex educator based on the unceded Lekwungen and W̱SÁNEĆ territories, colonially known as Victoria, BC. She works with humans who are ready to practice ReMatriation: the return to matriarchy, Mothers at the Beginning.

If our bodies are representations of the Earth, how are we treating them? With reverence? Awe? Kindness?

Returning to pleasure as a practice of prayer.

 

Background, Training, & Employment

Midlife Midwife Facilitation Training, August 2026 - Current

Right Use of Power, 3 Day Virtual Training, June 2026

Co-Founder & Practitioner at The Himeros Project (previously The Apollo Project: Retreats for Men), 2018 - Current

Practitioner & Teacher with Back to the Body: Sensual Retreats for Women, 2018 - 2025

Board Member of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers, 2019 - 2021

Board Member of the Somatic Sex Educators Association, 2018 - 2022

“Like A Pro” Wheel of Consent with Dr. Betty Martin, 2018

Certified Somatic Sex Educator & Sexological Bodyworker, SSEA / Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education, 2017

Intern Surrogate Partner, International Professional Surrogates Association, 2017

Certified Holistic Sex Educator, Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, 2015 - 2018

Founder of Spit.Exposed, Toronto’s Queer & Feminist Porn, 2014 - 2019

Volunteer with Planned Parenthood on HIV Awareness, 2015

Founder of “Body Pride,” naked workshops for body love, 2012 - 2016

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